By Umm Mahmod


According to the Nielson Index, children 2 to 12 years of age  watch an average of 25 hours of television a week,  approximately 3 and a half hours a day. These children will have spent 15,000 hours glued to the set by the time they   graduate high school - about 4,000 hours more than time spent in school. And if the viewing isn't carefully screened, research suggests 18,000 murders will be witnessed, and  countless other crimes from robberies and rapes to bombings to  beatings. And about 14 suggestive moments an hour of casual sex.

Excessive TV viewing has other drawbacks also. It is linked to obesity and poor school performance. And because it can reduce interaction among family members, especially at dinner time, it can interfere with family life. But perhaps worst of all, it creates a picture of the world that is distorted and inaccurate. (And these are the words of the Kufar, the disbelievers!)

As Muslims, we should keep our children far away from the TV. For small children, shows like Barney and Sesame Street are 90% music, and talk about birthdays and magic and other things that  are Haram. It is not justifiable to say, "But it teaches them  how to count!" How do you explain so that your children  understand, what is seen as fun and the "norm" on TV is forbidden in our lives. Cartoons show violence, hitting and  kicking. Programs that older children watch show dating and the  need for dressing and looking your best to be accepted. We're  confusing our children's value system  by establishing norms of  behavior and beliefs that are not accepted in Islam.  The  temptation to use TV as a way to occupy our children's time  while we cook or clean is there for all of us, but it's not worth what our children will learn from it.
 


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